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Shit like this makes me genuinely angry. It’s just incredible how many men out there who think women are only sexual for men. Who can’t even imagine that you’d have your own, autonomous, sometimes downright carnivorous sex drive independent of your partners.
No concept at all that rather than falling asleep after their orgasm the way they do, you instead lie there wrenched with frustration, maybe fingering yourself as discreetly as possible to avoid waking him, or slipping into the bathroom to finish what he never imagined it was possible even to start.
Masturbation not just for men? Ahahahah! It’s startling how many men believe that. And even more startling how many women teach their daughters the same thing. How many peers do.
There’s nothing, zero, nothing at all humiliating, shameful, perverse, needy, slutty, whorish, bestial, uncouth, uncultured, or wrong with rubbing one out. Or a dozen.
For crying out loud we’re almost 20% of the way through the 21st Century! Unless your family still shits in outhouses and still does laundry in the creek out back there’s no excuse for this attitude.
