its fuckingdisturbing that you want to treat women like children. immaturity is not sexy and you are vile for thinking so

Thank you for your comment.  You feel I treat adult women as if they were children.  It’s your position that immaturity is vile and that if I think it’s sexy I’m a vile person.  Does that sound right?

Technically I want to treat competent, capable adult kinky partners the way they enjoy being treated during kinky activities.  But if you don’t see the distinction it could certainly be vile and disgusting.  I agree completely that if I didn’t see the difference either then I really would be a vile person!

It would be even worse if I wanted to treat all women (or men, actually) like children, wouldn’t it?  And there are plenty of people in the world who think exactly that way.  One of the tough things about having kinks is that they tend to be pretty transgressive, and very often reflect actions or behaviors that when sincerely believed and especially when advocated as social, legal, or religious are pretty fucking disturbing.  

Luckily for all of us I’m not interested in child partners (eww), or adult partners who are immature (yikes), nor do I think all prospective partners are or should be child-like.  

Also luckily the psychologists, artists, business owners, college students, emergency responders, single parents, athletes, and other adults who’ve flirted with or dated me since I started this Cg/L or D/Lg Daddy blog would be less than impressed if they thought I imagined were childlike or immature.  Nor would they be impressed with anyone who leveled that accusation against them… as you’ll likely discover if you drop similar accusations in their inboxes.

I don’t know if you feel reassured by my answer but please believe me when I say I appreciate your concern.  Best of luck in your own relationships, kinky or otherwise.