Daddy can I pretty please sit on your lap?
If you don’t understand that being a D/Lg Little or D/S Sub or S&M Masochist is it’s own active, independent, autonomous kink you won’t be able to understand kink at all. Not even a little bit!
I’d add, incidentally, that because of this it’s important for Littles, Subs, and other bottoms remember that it’s just as important for you to get consent and respect boundaries when you initiate play. Especially with a new partner.
That’s one of the things I mean I mean by people not understanding D/Lg or D/S, by the way. It’s just so baked into our stereotypes that Littles or Subs are always and exclusively under the thumb of their top that it simply never occurs to them that as active agents with your own agenda a kinky bottom wants what you want. And it’s even less well understood, even in the kink community, that you have your own responsibilities as well as rights.
And meanwhile, yes, if we’ve been properly introduced then of course you can sit in my lap, papercut!
