Posts Tagged ‘foreplay = sex’
âMen need to hunt. She obviously understands this. Sheâs offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.âÂ
â Willow Madison
Thereâs an awesome moment towards the end of Milan Kunderaâs The Unbearable Lightness of Being where two women surprise a renowned âpickup artistâ with the news that theyâre about to have sex. They tauntingly tell him if he can get an erection in 60 seconds heâll be allowed to join them.
A minute later their laughter is heard as they close the door behind him.
In the 20th Century it was believed that men didnât need foreplay. We were just always ready for sex. Here in the 21st Century we know better. Mostly.
Sometimes, though, people mistakenly say things like âmen need to hunt.â But really, like the Kunderaâs foolish player, men need foreplay too.
âThe future is already here â it’s just not very evenly distributedâ – William Gibson
Do Doms like giving aftercare or is it something they have to do?
Well, I canât presume to speak for anyone but myself, but I personally love giving aftercare. Dom Followers, chime in here!
Actually my favorite part.
Youâre both more appreciative of the softness after a little violence.
honestly, if I felt like the aftercare I received was obligatory, or that my Dom was doing it because he felt like he âhad toâ? and believe me, I would pick up on that shit like whoa.
I wouldnât even want it.
âAftercareâ and âforeplayâ are such bizarre notions once you think about it. Itâs part of sex. Sex! Whatâs not to like?
Ahahaha! Canât believe anyone thinks of this as just âforeplay!â Ahahah, no, baby princess coconut pie! This? This is sex! Â
âI donât want sex, I want the things that lead up to it. The slow kissing then the passionate kissing, then the pulling closer, the neck kisses, the grabbing, biting, heavy breathing, grinding, the pauses while you catch your breath, feeling each other. Oh my. Then sex.â
â (via crgasmic)
Exactly!
mytormentedwhisperedillusions:
Mmm.
Yes, please.
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Or as I like to call it, âsex.â
Never let anyone try and define sex as just the fucking bits.
Newt Gingrich and Bill Clinton both denied blowjobs were sex. Some conservative (naturally) fundamentalists deny its sex unless a man ejaculates inside somebodyâs vagina.
Letâs not agree with that.
Instead letâs take it the other way and say sex can begin with a text on Wednesday saying Iâm looking forward to the ride home with you after we go out on Friday night.
And everything else artificial-vanilla types dismiss as âforeplay.â
Ladies,
Itâs time we made a change to the status quo.
Point 1: One-for-One
For decades, guys have been getting head without eating pussy. Ladies, you can stop this. Expect a 1:1 ratio. If you gave him head last time, donât give it to him this time, or the next time, or any time until he eats that pussy.
Point 2: Foreplay is required
Foreplay is not a special thing to do. Itâs not something for her birthday or valentines. It is mandatory. If your body isnât ready, donât let him in. Remember the song âYouâve gotta lick it, before you stick itâ?
Points 3: Eating pussy is not just foreplay
Donât be with a quitter. Donât settle for a man who doesnât finish what he starts. He needs to eat you right. He needs to finish you. Not sometimes. All the fucking time! Heâll know when youâve had enough when you either try to squash his head with your legs, or you drag him up, by his hair, to kiss your taste off his lips.
Remember, foreplay is kind of an artifact of the middle 20th Century when they âdiscoveredâ that women can come too… but really werenât sure why 3 minutes with Teh Cock didnât seem to do the trick when it worked so well for men.
I know, right? Total mystery! ????
But here in the 21st Century, where weâve had nearly 60 years to work out what Masters & Johnson âdiscovered?â
Itâs not âforeplay,â itâs SEX play! Blowjobs arenât âforeplayâ (though it can make women very horny and very wet!â) And same with eating pussy!
Itâs not âforeplay,â itâs SEX!
Itâs also fun as hell!
I continued to get so close to cuming so I pulled out of my wifeâs pussy. I laid back and told her letâs foreplay for a bit until we are ready to explode. She backed that sweet ass on to my face and she sucked my cock. The maid once again knocked on the door I removed my mouth from my wifeâs pussy, my lips covered in her juices and moaned, â Iâm eating my wifeâs pussy and she canât answer because her mouth is full of my cock, come back later !â
âForeplayâ was basically invented in the 1960s to deal with the perceived problem of âpremature ejaculation.â The idea was that men should use âforeplayâ to arouse their wives (my werenât they prim back in the 1960s!) to better increase the chance that the Mrs. would come when ârealâ sex, a.k.a. penis-in-vagina intercourse began.
But thereâs two ways to look at âpremature ejaculation.â And âforeplay!â
One being that, yeah, donât start fucking till sheâs seconds away from orgasm so that his quick orgasm is timed with hers.
The other, the one @passionate-pleasure31 describes in such loving detail, is using âforeplayâ not just to increase her arousal but to extend his!
Seriously. One of the best solutions for men is to stop when theyâre close and start playing with their lovers again. And letting their lovers play with them.
And donât think for a minute that most women⊠even those who arenât the least bit submissiveâŠÂ mind horribly if you say âoh god, stop⊠donât even move or Iâll come right this second!â Â
Mmmm, âforeplay.â Or as I like to call it sex!
Wanted to repost this. A meal begins with planning and ends when the last dish is clean and put away. Sex begins with the first spark and ends only when the last bit of warmth leaves the neatly remade bed, tent, or Saint Andrews cross.
To see sex otherwise is to miss most of the pleasure. In 2018 letâs acknowledge ALL of it and not just the rumpy pumpy parts in the middle. I promise weâll all enjoy it more if we do.