Funny. You know, corsets are so pretty in all their whalebone, leather, and hooks and laces splendor. But have you ever hugged someone who was wearing one of the damned things? They’re almost specifically made to be seen in but not to be touched in. (I mean, ever try and slip your hand inside one to stroke the sensitive undersides of someone’s breast? Not gonna happen when they’re cinched tight.)
But there are other ways to decorate one’s middle so that looks very pretty and… still feels wonderful!
(Note: I know there are other reasons why people like to wear corsets. And nothing wrong with that. In this case I’m just being selfish and talking about me though. Even though I know that unless I’m by myself sex isn’t all or always about me.)
What a lovely idea! Even when we’re not even a little bit casual an older, experienced gentleman should wear his “lingerie” if he knows you’ll be wearing yours.
But also because I wish to be all that I was created to be. To gloriously revel in unabashed surrender. To give all of my sexual self within the safety of unconditional love and acceptance. To lay the burden of my insatiable desire as a rare and cherished gift at his feet. For it is in his hands that transformation takes place. He frees the me that lies hidden in stone. Crafts me by exploring my mind, his mind and fingers smear and prod, coaxing me to life, molding me with his own desires in response.
For him, I become. ~dd
Oooh! This feels like it could be a whole leap past inspection kink, doesn’t it? Close your eyes and try daydreaming about strong, clever hands on your body leaving you feeling not simply explored but molded so that who you are (really, already are) is also exactly how he wants to make you!
Non-kinksters don’t get that in kink relationships there’s no such thing as a passive partner. That’s the key that distinguishes it from use, abuse, transactional sex, and too much vanilla sex.
Kink is about actively sharing and participating in what you both want to do. What gives you both a “happy buzz.”
Kink is sex play, and the thing about play is you only do it if you both enjoy it.
