Aftercare is not optional. It’s the icing on the cake.
In many ways it’s the best part.
Remember, after this time is the foundation for the next time.
Can’t get over how good it feels reading @tru2bkind’s perspective on topping. And her way of pulling her Dominant perspective into typically-gendered images.
Plus her lovely insights into the importance of things like aftercare.
“Remember, after this time is the foundation for the next time!” That’s just good Topping 101!
Makes me so happy because women who are Doms, not “dommes,” and men who are Subs but not sissified are so underrepresented in kink culture.
So I’m happy as can be to add her to my old-school blogroll tag!
