Even an older, experienced Daddy always gets caught by surprise when you didn’t mean “at the zoo” when you asked if I wanted to feed the baby goats!

I love this so much!  A lot of the time when you see “69″ in porn it’s either one or the other on top.  But really this is a lot more comfortable, cosy, and even intimate, isn’t it?  Lying with your head on my inner thigh and mine on yours.  Nobody “in charge,” and, really, nobody in a hurry or feeling obliged to perform.  Just enjoying each other and feeling enjoyed is just… pretty wonderful!

Perfect thing to do on a lazy Saturday evening or Sunday afternoon, huh, cricket?

Re your post about blowjobs: I’m a guy and don’t really get the hype either. I’m 29 and have been with 8 women, only 2 of whom could finish the ‘job’. It takes a lot of effort for me to cum, regardless of how we’re trying or whether I’m masturbating or somebody else is involved. Many women talk the talk but can’t back it. Perhaps it’s because I’m on the small side but few will even feign enthusiasm (why do it begrudgingly? That’s not hot). Receiving feels too passive for me too… (part 1, TBC)

victorianmaidn:

oldenoughtobeyourfather:

xxxamorexxx:

This!!!  It took me years to learn how to come from blowjobs.  They always felt heavenly but it’s hard to get me in the right places.  Or something.  I’d had the opposite problem with PIV intercourse.  That too felt (still feels!) heavenly but if I wasn’t hyper careful I’d come within seconds.  

On the other hand there are quite a few men who feel the opposite – they can come easily from blowjobs but not PIV intercourse.  And meanwhile quite a few women don’t come from receiving oral.

I want to be clear here that it’s a mistake to say it’s the partner’s problem.  And a bigger mistake to say “well they wouldn’t have that problem with me!”  Because, yeah, even if you can tie a cherry stem with your tongue that might not work for some partners.

So here’s the main deal though: we’ve got a scarcity model of sex such that certain things are supposed to be “ultimate” in pleasure based a little more on how likely they are to happen or how hard they are to “acquire.”  

As various people (I’ll credit Mark Twain) have said “if peanuts were scarce instead of sturgeon the wealthy would fawn over peanut butter instead of caviar.”  Same with, say, ass fucking which, from my perspective, feels pretty much exactly the same as PIV.  And yet if you go following Tumblr or Reddit or PornHub porn it’s presented as some kind of holy grail.  This has, I suspect, more to do with partners’ relative enthusiasm for receiving anal, and therefore its scarcity, more than it’s actual… I dunno what to call it… “pleasure value” or something maybe?

Anyway, point is that it’s just not true that everyone will get off from fellatio in general or deep-throat fellatio in particular, or cunnilingus, or PIV intercourse, or giant cocks, or ass fucking, or threeways, or rimming, or much younger or older partners, or spanking, (FFS) “squirting” and other g-spot orgasms, “fucking all night,” or… pretty much any single highly-valued sex act that most people never do once (and, notably, that very few do twice.)

And the bottom line from me to you, as usual, is: there’s exactly nothing wrong with enjoying any or all of these things but don’t stress if X, Y, or/and Z doesn’t do anything for you.  You’re SOOOO not alone.  The big difference, usually, is that the others are embarrassed to admit it doesn’t do much for them either.

It depends why the little is doing it

To make Daddy cum? I guess

But that would be a byproduct for me.

My desire is simply to worship you and by extension your cock. I want to kiss and lick it, feel it grow. Trace the vein with my tongue, suckle on you heavy, full balls. Stroke you and lick the vein some more, make you feel so good. I just want you to feel good Daddy.

Since I’ve been going on a lot about the “downsides” of oral sex, this point by @victorianmaidn is actually pretty important too: a blowjob you give me isn’t always about me!  Me licking you isn’t always all about you either.

Sometimes I just want to enjoy the all-senses banquet I get by going down on you.  Seeing you, the sounds and taste and aroma, how you feel against my tongue, how you move your legs and hips, how you breathe and whisper and moan, how you grab or stroke my hair?  That turns me on!  That makes me hot and hard and very happy.  I wouldn’t want to do it if it bored you or outright turned you off.  I love getting you off, but I also just love doing it.

And sometimes?  Sometimes you just want my dick in your mouth, don’t you?  And even if I don’t always come that way?  It still always feels good, bluejay.  You’re a good girl.

Connections

Rrrrr! Can’t think of a way to say it that doesn’t sound soo-woo or like a science experiment but whether you’re sucking me or I’m fingering you it just… ugh… closes a circuit when we do it together.

And if you lose the plot and forget what you’re doing because they’re coming? Well. It’ll be my turn soon enough. Or vice versa. Cause knowing you’ve come sends me sailing, wriggleworm, when it’s my turn. Or yours.

Source:

When you’re in no hurry at all and you’re terribly fond of each other and you’re horny but not urgently so…

thelittlespanishbaby:

roughaussie:

suppenny:

Let me suck your cock while you’re doing some normal shit like watching tv or reading. You’re not going to cum right away, I just want to feel your weight in my mouth, your tip against my lips, my spit covering you. Let it touch the back of my throat gently. I’ll run my tongue all over your balls and pull them into my mouth for a bit. I’ll be the happiest girl in the world getting to taste you.

I just wanna appreciate how pretty you are. ☺️

Casually suck my cock as I read the morning paper

Casual cock warming is awesome

Years ago a friend I spent a lot of time with would always put her arm around me and gently cup my cock in her hand when she was spooning me.  Sort of the way I’d cup her breast if I was spooning her.

It wasn’t particularly sexual in a “want to get you off” sort of way.  She just liked men’s bodies in general and, maybe, mine in particular.

And every now and then, on Sunday mornings like this one, when we’d spent the night together, we’d sometimes wind up lying on our sides, end to end, her head resting on my inner thigh and mine on hers.  And we’d talk and touch and nuzzle and taste each other.  She wouldn’t take me in her mouth to fire me up or make me come, any more than I’d slurp an inner lip between my lips and softly swirl the inner side with my tongue to get her off.

When you’re in no hurry at all and you’re terribly fond of each other and you’re horny but not urgently so it just feels really comfortable, and comforting, intimate and erotic, and even though it’s not immediately erotic it feels really, really good.  To receive, sure, but also to give!

This is a feeling that’s so often lost in all the hurly-burly, overscheduled, everything-for-a-purpose world where we “hydrate” instead of drink water, and eat “nutrients” instead of food, and privilege orgasms over eroticism.  And…

…confuse casual cock sucking with “gift giving” or Submission.  Instead, as with my old friend, cock nursing can be simply companionably vanilla.

Then school ended, all those years ago, and summer began and as one does when you’re in college my friend and I ended up in different cities in different time zones.

I’ve always adored being touched and sucked with no other purpose in mind.  Same as I enjoy stroking and cupping and tasting you!  And on this lazy Sunday morning as another summer begins @suppenny’s post has me missing it terribly.  What are you doing this morning?  And why are you so many time-zones away?

When they’re older, Littles are often able to get their own bottles before waking Daddy…

“If you frequently notice your [Little’s] sneaky eating habits, your approach to indulging and serving food may need to change.  Explain that there’s nothing wrong with having a snack or a treat—as long as she also eats the meals you regularly serve her.  You already decide when and what your [Little] eats. Some [Littles] sneak treats as a way to assert independence, so give them the freedom to choose how much she puts on her plate during mealtime.”
– Source: Randomly selected internet advice, um, lightly edited…

Because a good Daddy understands that sometimes you just like something in your mouth while you’re getting yourself off.  And so you know, just because you’re too, um, distracted to get me off too it still feels wonderful!

And sometimes you can “feel the baby kicking” in Daddy’s tummy if you listen the right way…

Ok, not really.  But “listening the right way” can still be a lot of fun, can’t it?