Sigh! i like to do both. At once. Because being aggressively cuddly? Gently rough? Sweetly fucking the shit out of you? That Thing, though, whatever itâs called. Thatâs what I like to do too. Because youâre not going to break and I donât even want to break you, and I have a really tough time not stopping in the middle for little kisses (even when weâre playing mean-Daddy games!)
Actually I like doing all three at once! Lovely mattress-bouncing fucking, sweet kisses and murmurs, and of course cleaning you up after with warm washcloths and soft towels and lots of snuggling after making a mutually delightful mess of you.
One of the most difficult things about being a good Daddy is continuing to pretend Iâm totally oblivious when you want attention. Well. More than want. And more that attention too.
But itâs just so much fun idly patting your head and saying âtrying to get comfy, doodlebug?â And âgoodness youâre a wiggle worm arenât you?â And âdo you need to go potty?â Or âdo you need more room on the bed? I can move over.â
And oh itâs adorable watching you blush when I say, all mild and seemingly clueless, âuse your words, I donât understand.â
But ohhh ainât you wet when I finally âunderstand â and say âoh do you need to hump Daddyâs thigh while I rub your little butt, popcorn?â
By which time itâs one of the most difficulthardest things for me too. đ
Sex is very nice. And sometimes itâs good to be held immediately after sex too, isnât it? And before.
The best thing that might have ever happened to me was learning to tell the difference between being horny and being lonely. They overlap a lot when youâre not getting either. But you need both.
You might not notice the difference till realize youâre only getting enough of one or the other.
We often use âfriends with benefitsâ and âfuck buddiesâ as if they were interchangable. But theyâre not, are they? No, not at all.
After a hectic, busy week I could really go for hugging and cuddling all day. (Ok, and maybe the occasional slippery wriggle or two. But mostly hugging all day.)
