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An older, experienced gentleman always pretends not to notice that his Little grinds herself rapturously on his thigh when he has her turned over his knee…
“…but it seems to be having quite the opposite effect!â
âMust you always be so contrary, my dear. The physician assured me that it would soothe you if I rub the tender spots after administering a vigorous spanking but it seems to be having quite the opposite effect!â
“Iâm a good girl but please spank me like Iâm bad!”
Iâm a good girl but please spank me like Iâm bad!
{Naughty smiles}
An older, experienced Daddy will reassure his Little who wants a spanking that whether she wants to call it a punishment for being bad or a reward for being good sheâll get what she wants…Â
and deserves. đ
Spanking and âGoodâ vs âNaughtyâ ClichĂ©s
An older, experienced gentleman understands that if itâs not for punishment, spanking a good girl can make her want to be very naughty, canât it, spindrift?
A good Daddy always pretends not to notice when his Little grinds his thigh when sheâs turned over his knee. But then a good Daddy always makes sure his thighâs in the right place in the first place, doesnât he, elbowmacaroni?
Same. We’re all alone no chaperone can get our number…
Same.
Weâre all alone no chaperone can get our number
The worldâs in slumber
Letâs misbehaveâŠ
â Cole Porter
Fair warning: kissing me after a spanking isnât a very good way to make me stopâŠ
Also fair warning: Iâd never spank you if I didnât think it would make you want to kiss me, applepeel.
Dear NSPoSB,
     Look, I hate
the term âspankoâ, but it is widely used to describe a person with very
specific experiences. If your partner has a spanking fetish, itâs been with them
their entire lives. They probably looked up âspankingâ in the dictionary by the
time they got to 3rd grade. Then they probably looked it up many times
after that, without really understanding why. They might have reread those
scenes in the Little House books that
featured spankings, or else watched with rapt attention if there was a spanking
in a movie. Then, one day, they probably typed âspankingâ into whatever search
engine was popular at the time (I wonder, did anyone ever ask Jeeves about
spanking? Surely they did).     It can be
hard talking about the spanking bug. Here are some things you should know.1.    Itâs almost impossible to talk about.    Â
I donât think that I am the
only spanko who blushes just to hear the words âspankâ, âdisciplineâ, âpunishââor
anything related. And forget about saying them aloud. Somehow we learn early on
as children that we cannot talk about our weird fascination with spanking, and
then it becomes a secret that we carry with us for decades. The longer we carry
it with us, the harder it is to speak. I didnât tell a soul until I was 17, and
I still canât talk about it aloud. I canât even type it if I think that it will
be read by someone I know. Itâs difficult to communicate what we want and
unfair to you. Iâm sorry.2.   Itâs not a sex thing. Except when it is.
When we tell you we like
spanking, youâre probably thinking foreplay. Thatâs not what we mean. For many
of us, spanking is a drive that runs parallel to our sex drive. The spankings
that we want can be entirely non-sexual. Many of us look for spankings that are
disciplinary or therapeutic in nature. A good spanking is a cure for many
things: stress, grouchiness, attitude, sass.But spanking
and sex arenât entirely unrelated, either. If we donât have spankings in our
lives, our sex drive plummets. Spankings outside the bedroom can have a very
real effect on what happens inside the bedroom, even without a single sexual
spanking. Personally, Iâd rather live my life without sex than without spanking.3.   Spank harder than you think.
There are a lot of people who
are into spanking a little bitâlike a couple of smacks on the ass during sexâbut
spankos want a real spanking. Thatâs a lot more involved than what normal
people want when they say they like being spanked. Spankos want to you take
them to a straight-backed armless chair, tip them over your knee, and spank
their behind red. And they probably want you to scold them while you do.Obviously, this differs
depending on the individual. But in general, I know mostly spankos who would
much rather get spanked a little too hard than be left feeling unsatisfied. A
good way to do this is to start spanking with your hand, not too hard, maybe
over their clothes, and progress to spanking their bare behind. Maybe you use a
hairbrush or other implement as the spanking reaches its climax.Lots of spankos would love to
cry from a spanking. Some of us just canât no matter how painful it is. Some of
us (ahem, me) cry from two swats with a paddle. Youâll just have to make your
partner tell you their limits. Consider using a safeword if they want to be
able to resist the spanking without stopping it.NSPoSB, there are so many things that your partner is trying
to imply when they say, âIâm into spanking.â I know that I havenât covered all
of them, but I hope itâs a start. Dig deeper into what they mean. Ask them
specific questions. Make them answer in writing: it will probably get you more
detailed answers. And know that you are doing your partner a huge service by
participating in this deeply-rooted need that they have.Love,
Ophelia
#2 is so true for me and so hard to explain to others.Â
A little education goes a long way âŠ
Aaaahhh!!!! Blushing âjust to hear the words ‘spank’, ‘discipline’, ‘punish’âor anything related?â
Thatâs, like, total catnip for this soft Daddy with a cheerful sadistic side kink!
I have exactly zero interest in making up rules just so you can break them just so I can spank you. Zero. None! Thatâs one of the things Doms and Daddy Doms are really good at, and itâs one of the reasons why Iâm not one.
But as @opheliaovertheknee so nicely puts it, âspankoâ is its own independent, autonomous kink, and….
I wouldnât be much of a Daddy if I didnât like indulging my partnerâs kinks now, would I?
????
Daddy knows, chipmunk, Daddy knows and thinks itâs adorable. Come lie across my lap and dance for me…
A soft Daddy isnât the same as a nice Daddy, is it? No, not at all! A nice Daddy would use a less embarrassingly… intimate way of keeping you in place, wouldnât he?