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Maybe so. But pretty sure you wouldn’t mind if instead I looked in your eyes, softly caressed your cheek, and said “I’m going to bend you over my desk and take them off for you.”
Would you like that, kittycat?
’m closing my eyes, princess — you close yours too — and let’s imagine me gripping your hips and controlling your cute bottom in my big strong hands.
Mmmm, ethical manhandling!
Notice how carefully and almost gently he’s spanking her? Also notice how he’s already warmed her up? Surprised? Please don’t be. That’s the way you do it!
Folks who don’t understand kink imagine spanking is always aggressive, punitive, and hard as possible – you know, the way angry parents, teachers, and frat boys do it.
But really, while yes you’ll find capital-M Masochists who genuinely thrive on serious pain, for almost everyone else the key isn’t how hard you’re spanked but how well.
I mean, look. It’s like pretty much everything else in sex, right? Yes, you can just jam an object inside someone without warming them up, or start jacking a guy with no warmup, or stick your tongue down someone’s throat on the first kiss. And yes, you can find people who like that too!
But most people don’t. And therefore, kinksters being people and all, most kinksters don’t care much for it either.
I’m always saying “don’t do it the way they do it in porn.” Let me just add “don’t do it the way angry parents, teachers, and frat boys do it either.”
Good reminder that it would get pretty boring if I only bent you over to spank you, wouldn’t it?
Daddy let me help you
Leave her alone
And she’ll come home
Wagging her tail behind her…
Something so sweet about showing you how gentle Incan be with my big strong hands, princess.