“A hobble (also, and perhaps earlier, hopple) or spancel is a device which prevents or limits the locomotion of a [Sub or Pet], by tethering one or more legs. Although hobbles are most commonly used on horses, they are also sometimes used on other [Subs or Pets].”
Giving! I know you never asked why, but I’m gonna tell you anyway..
It’s all about the visual and audio reactions. Audio obviously speaks for itself, so pleasing visual reactions and sensations to see/feel include:
• Lip biting.
• Eyes rolling to the back of her head.
• Watching her arch her back when it gets too much.
• The look where she lifts her head up slightly to have a look down her body, locking eye contact with me for a few seconds, before watching her head fall back swiftly into place again.
• The feeling of her trembling thighs underneath you.
• The shuffles she makes.
• Having her fingers in my hair.
• Grabbing other parts of her body simultaneously (if you have long arms like I do).
• Seeing the immense pleasure and enjoyment spread across the receiver’s face and knowing that you’re responsible for that.
Yeah those reasons 👆🏼
All this plus as a top I get the same rush taking you to plateau phase and toying you over the edge as I do sending you into sub space or little space. Turning you into a cute, wriggly, needy, clingy, breathy, incoherent puddle is always so hot and using licks and kisses is a particularly intimate way to do it.
This is just one more reason I think it’s dumb when someone says a Dom or Daddy shouldn’t go down on their Sub or Little. I mean ahahaha!
S/O to the girls that love being choked a lil when they’re being kissed
This is one of those things I’ll do, kindly and carefully, that as a top I don’t really understand. I mean I’ve never once woken up saying gee it would be nice to lightly choke my sweetie.
But, weirdly to the uninitiated, power-exchange kinks aren’t all about the top, are they? Older, experienced tops certainly do what pleases us, but we do it within the consent, boundaries, and hard limits we negotiate with our partners.
I’ve never though mmm, wonder if she’ll let me choke her. But oh boy do a lot of submissive melt into happy little smoldering puddles when I do.
I might not understand why it turns you on so, caterpuppy. But I adore doing it with, to, and for you.
A lot of people don’t get that the pleasure of consensual manhandling is about surrendering your whole body and not just your naughty bits. And (Swedish-style, non-elbows) massage is basically very thorough non-sexual manhandling, isn’t it?
So thee key to a great erotic massage is to start with a real massage and wait till we both have no doubt about the answer to one simple question…
Close your eyes and daydream of my soft, low voice prompting you… encouraging you… letting you know how sorry I am not to be able to help you… to taste you… and after you come, thistledown? Daydream of me thanking you for taking care of yourself for me… acknowledging you… and letting you know I’m proud of you.
