The trick to 69 is taking turns, not trying to have āsimultaneous orgasm so.ā The trick is itās just so much more intimate. The trick is it just feels and tastes and looks and feels and feels and feels wonderful!
I know thereās way better ways of measuring sexual satisfaction and enjoyment than basic orgasm counts. And I know some people canāt come, or have āsquibā orgasms, or have terrible drops when they do. And do they enjoy edging endlessly to actually coming. And Iām ok with that.
But if someone gives me puppy eyes Iām always going to say yes. If I tease you itāll always be as buildup, not taunting.
Because, honestly, I donāt need a partner to make me come. I can do that myself. Therefore for me a huge reward of partner sex (as opposed to partner dancing or holding hands) is making you come!
And so gratuitously denying you might frustrate me more than it would you, kittycat.
Giving! I know you never asked why, but Iām gonna tell you anyway..
Itās all about the visual and audio reactions. Audio obviously speaks for itself, so pleasing visual reactions and sensations to see/feel include:
ā¢ Lip biting.
ā¢ Eyes rolling to the back of her head.
ā¢ Watching her arch her back when it gets too much.
ā¢ The look where she lifts her head up slightly to have a look down her body, locking eye contact with me for a few seconds, before watching her head fall back swiftly into place again.
ā¢ The feeling of her trembling thighs underneath you.
ā¢ The shuffles she makes.
ā¢ Having her fingers in my hair.
ā¢ Grabbing other parts of her body simultaneously (if you have long arms like I do).
ā¢ Seeing the immense pleasure and enjoyment spread across the receiverās face and knowing that youāre responsible for that.
Yeah those reasons šš¼
All this plus as a top I get the same rush taking you to plateau phase and toying you over the edge as I do sending you into sub space or little space. Turning you into a cute, wriggly, needy, clingy, breathy, incoherent puddle is always so hot and using licks and kisses is a particularly intimate way to do it.
This is just one more reason I think itās dumb when someone says a Dom or Daddy shouldnāt go down on their Sub or Little. I mean ahahaha!
Homework Daddy gives you: develop new neural pathways by learning to make yourself come in new positions. Itāll make it easier to come with partners, kittycat.
