Just a little reminder that anyone who says, with their bare faces hanging out, that “Subs should never be on top” deserves our pity far more than our mockery and wrath.
Ugh! Doing this is so impossibly sweet and hot, isn’t it? Capturing my thigh between yours? My fingertips dipping just inside you. Your eager hand finding me straining inside my jeans. Pressing your breasts against my bare chest while we make out?
Oh princess, let’s spend allll afernoon doing things just like this!
You have one purpose, and if he would rather look at porn than use your drippy cumsockets to masturbate with, that doesn’t change your job description.
Don’t screw it up stupid.
Just for the record, while I do my best to accommodate someone’s humiliation kink when I’m topping them, I’m… probably never going to be able to convincingly pretend like I’d rather be looking at porn while you’re there.
I’m sorry. I’m a pretty good actor. But, yeah, never going to be that good.
Erections are such temperamental things. It’s hard for a woman not to believe it’s somehow her fault, but you reassure her by showing her how much you cherish all those aspects of your sexual life that doesn’t require an erection so hard you can cut diamonds with it
Please allow me to explain some basic facts (the over simplified version).
Erections are a result on one thing – blood flowing in faster than it can flow out. A little nitric oxide is the chemical on/off switch for this mechanism. Much of the triggering mechanisms for erections are completely unrelated to sexual stimuli, satisfaction, etc. In fact, most of it is located in the spine – think autopliot.
Here’s some not so fun penile factoids:
Serious brain injury causes an unrelenting erection (priapism). I’ve rescued unconcious victims from head-on collisions with raging boners.
Many men with severed spinal cords can have erections and ejaculations with zero sexual thoughts or even feeling it all.
We give the recently dead erections and use electrical stimulation to cause ejaculation to harvest their sperm for their spouse.
Male rape victims have experienced erections and ejaculation (female victims experience their version of this too).
One should not confuse sexual arousal and pleasure with an erection. Plenty of men with various forms of ED have arousal, enjoy sexual stimulation and activities AND have orgasms with ejaculation.
It’s a penis, not an infallible tool of measuring sex.
Try sharing these facts and keep reassuring her.
Aaahhh!!!! Thissss!!!!
Two things that way too many people don’t understand at all.
Penile erection doesn’t automatically mean you want sex
Vaginal lubrication doesn’t automatically mean you want sex
And while we’re at it…
A soft penis doesn’t automatically mean you’re not interested
Vaginal dryness doesn’t automatically mean you’re not interested
All four of these misunderstandings cause so much unnecessary confusion, anguish, gaslighting, and disappointment.
It’s very sweet that the anon’s partner cares about his sexual enjoyment. It’s a shame she doesn’t understand very much about how his body works.
