Posts Tagged ‘fucking me’
Dick riding IS NOT a form of transportation!!!!!!!!Â
Not with that attitude
An older, experienced Daddy understands that all about the journey not the destination. And when you ride and ride and ride Daddy? He understands that getting there is half the fun, isnât it, cricket?
D/Lg is fun because it bypasses all those âSubs shouldnât initiate or be on topâ stereotypes. Because itâs allllwaaaayyys ok for Littles to play Hop on Pop, shirtstarch! Always!
D/S and D/Lg arenât about what you donât want. Theyâre about what you do!
Force â coercion
Speaks for itself. I love doing this. I love doing it with someone who loves doing it for me. The how isnât as important as the why, is it?
As owners we inadvertently encourage this behavior by occasionally allowing wriggling under you, or reaching out to pet or even pushing our puppies away when they do it. It is up to us to eliminate any reinforcement of this behavior in order to control and prevent it.
Training a non-compatible behavior is also a critical part of controlling and preventing wriggling. Think about what would you like your puppy to do when greeting you, instead of wriggling under you. A good choice would be to have her sit politely while being greeted. Â Work on training a good reliable sit cue in addition to eliminating unintentional reinforcement (ignore the behavior you donât like and reward the behaviors you do like.)
– lightly edited passage from a pet-training guide
I usually say Iâm sorry for folks who think whoever is on top is âthe dominant one.â
But really, when you think about it, so what if it was? Still feels awesome, doesnât it?
If you wanted the chance to hop on pop and ride me horsie style, caterpillar, Iâm sure Iâd be too, um, distracted to do anything but surrender.
Heh.
Lunchtime sex/nooners are the best, IMHO. âNot Ian
Quickies are fun, but I disagree that theyâre âthe best.â Maybe for a man, but definitely not for a woman. A little time and effort, por favor!
(Whoâs Ian?)
Quick question to put the âlibido imbalanceâ question in perspective: If person A wants 10 minutes of sex six days a week and person B âonlyâ wants 30 minutes of sex twice a week whoâs got the higher libido?
Hi! I’m the girl who asked about not being able to cum when my husband is in me. I think people aren’t understanding the question. I play with my clit and I can get there, but unless he pulls out, I can’t get my body to cum. So literally I can’t cum with him in me (fingers, dick, anything). Thanks so much!
Havenât read it for years (decades!?!?!) but Shere Hite mentioned this in her giant survey of womenâs sexuality from the late 1970s. The important thing is that the anon isnât the only one.
Heteronormative attachment to coming on Teh Cock runs deeply enough that you can find all kinds of advice from an astonishing array of sources. (If asked my approach would be neural-pathway development – most of us take a long time to learn to come from body positions, conditions, and stimulation we didnât initially learn to come from. But for some people that can take years, some people never succeed, and more importantly please donât ask me because itâs not the right question!
The right question is why do any of us need come a particular way with our partners?
Letâs turn this around for a minute (my favorite tactic, evidently) and consider men who are very quick to come during intercourse. Itâs not at all unreasonable – in fact itâs âmedically indicated!â – for the man to ask to stop all motion or to withdraw completely when heâs very, very close so that he wonât come. Right? Right!
So is it that odd or different or weird or wrong to ask your partner to stop or withdraw completely when youâre very, very close so you can come? No. Not really.
Turning it around a different way, in sex-advice columns youâll often hear of men who have a hard time coming from intercourse or fellatio and need to pull out and masturbate when theyâre finally ready to come. If you watch porn youâd get the impression the problem was pandemic!Â
For the record (again, not my advice) the anon might consider the advice offered to men: moderate your masturbation techniques to more closely resemble the conditions of partner sex; be patient as this can take months or years.
And what the heck, you can actually take that advice – it often works! But in the mean time…
If everything else about sex feels good then please donât worry that you your orgasms donât happen the ârightâ (i.e. heteronormative, phallocentric, straight-ass vanilla) way. And as long as you can come donât let your partner(s) worry about it either.Â
- Most women and many men donât come during penetrative sex.
- Thereâs not a wrong way to have an orgasm!
[Pedantic-preemption note: While I thoroughly understand criticism of her data collection methodology thereâs no reason to dispute her categorization – properly random sampling might change the distribution across categories such as position preference or masturbation methods or likelihood of orgasms but it would be unlikely to invalidate the categories themselves.]