wanna straddle a dom and grind on him all slow n sweet and kiss his neck, wanna giggle when he bucks his hips into me, want him to get handsy and grab my hips and thighs and ass, want him to groan low in my ear when he gets frustrated but still let me have my fun
Folks who don’t get D/S or D/Lg or other BDSM kinks might be surprised at such a clear Submissive’s detailed, active, engaged… and still thoroughly submissive wishlist.
But Submission is its own kink, one that fits very nicely with Domination, sure, but that exists 100% prior to and independent of any relationship with a Dom.
If you do understand D/S it makes perfect sense, of course. And, sure, it might or might not play out that way with an actual Dom, because each partner contributes something to every interaction. But a good Dom? Certainly a good Daddy? Yeah, if he knows that’s his Sub or Little’s hot, hot fantasy? He’s going to find a way to facilitate that, isn’t he?
Mmm, and not to put to fine a point on it but one of my favorite phrases as a top is “I’ve let you have your fun, princess, but now it’s Daddy’s turn, isn’t it?”
A nice Daddy says “omg, angel, what got into you? I didn’t expect this at all. You look so ridiculously cute looking up like that at me. Feels so incredible! I know you like when I pull your hair, is this ok? Oh, sweetie, you’re going to make. me. come. any. second…!!!”
A mean Daddy says “I’ll keep filming if you want, bootstrap, but folks are going to be noticing that open toilet seat lid than noticing you.”
Notice how careful and attentive he’s being? That’s because a good top understands that topping isn’t all about them. Hell yes it feels great to fuck your pretty face while your body’s collapsed from your knees to the ground. And hell yes it’s fun knowing that making the chain bob makes the clamps more intense for you. And hell yes you’ll end up with come on your mouth. And yeah, it might be hours before you’re finally allowed to come…
But a good top knows that Submission is about what makes you hot and wet and needy… what makes you happy… what leaves you so satisfied you want to do it again. And again.
That’s the art of topping, isn’t it, chipmunk? Maintaining meticulous control so we both get what we want.
