Non-kinksters don’t get that in kink relationships there’s no such thing as a passive partner.  That’s the key that distinguishes it from use, abuse, transactional sex, and too much vanilla sex.

Kink is about actively sharing and participating in what you both want to do.  What gives you both a “happy buzz.”

Kink is sex play, and the thing about play is you only do it if you both enjoy it.

Little secret that’s not always made clear on Tumblr: they’re not much of a Sadist or Dom if they don’t actually like the person they’re topping.  

An older, experienced top pretends not to notice where your clever fingers might be walking while he has his way with you…

You better come on
Into my kitchen
Because it’s going to be raining outdoors
– Robert Johnson

I promise Unless it made you very, very wet we’d do something else. But if it did? Down on your knees, alfalfasprout…

green-eyes81:

Let me be of service..

Want to use you, angel. Maybe roughly! But never abuse you.

Aaannddd… to be fair, I’m feeling a little sorry for folks who think giving or getting blowjobs while kneeling with your hands bound above your head is boring too. ????

An older, experienced top will say “good girl” even when you clearly already know you were wonderful, won’t he, pixiewings?

For the record, deep throat is highly overrated.  Meanwhile, this feels amazing!

fillmyprincessparts:

@kinkstersirh

Hmm. Is it humiliation or degradation play if YOU put on bunny ears and whiskers…

Before getting down on your knees like a cute little slut and…