One last point about âbut everyone loves getting oral.â Raise your hand if youâve ever effectively gotten numb while someone was sucking your dick or licking your pussy.
Donât be shy. I promise itâs ok to say yes if itâs happened to you.
Raise your hand if youâve gone on pretending youâre still enjoying it while becoming increasingly aware of this âwtfâ feeling? Â
Thereâs actually nothing wrong with this. It happens sometimes. The good news is if your partner pauses or gives you a break or switches to their hands for a bit or lets you go down on them for a bit your feeling almost always comes back. (You may have noticed this too.)
The problem is a lot of the time weâre too shy to mention to our partners… who may, in turn, be starting to get a crick in their neck or jaw or tongue and too shy to admit that. Â
Bottom line is itâs not your âfaultâ and itâs not your partners either. That just happens sometimes. Sometimes it even always happens before you can come, in which case maybe blowjobs or getting licked isnât right for you. Luckily there are lots of other things you can do. Including giving your partner and yourself a break.
The goal of good sex isnât to have orgasms every single time. Itâs for both of you to feel satisfied every single time. Where âsatisfiedâ may include masturbating rapturously while remembering how nice (but non-orgasmic) your partnerâs mouth felt on you.
The mistake a lot of folks make about 69 is to imagine that the goal is to have 1970â˛s-style âsimultaneous orgasms.â The perfectly reasonable complaint being that itâs awfully hard to be very good at what youâre doing if your partnerâs being very good at what theyâre doing.
It can be a lot more fun if you look at it as competition to see who can get the other completely lose the plot. Â
But really, the best way to appreciate 69 is to see it as you giving your partner an intimate sensory experience while you completely wind their clocks. They can enjoy looking, touching, and tasting you while you drive them home. And then they can do the same for you.
And really, even if youâve got them too loopy to get you off? It still feels wonderful when your partnerâs lazily mouthing you while youâre getting them off, doesnât it?
I couldnât not post this link a dear follower send me for Sunday Funday.Â
I admit, I all but snorted. Lol.
True fact: the main ingredient in semen after water is fructose, then much further down the ingredient list there are a bunch of minerals and then a little bit of protein. Less than 1% of the volume is actual sperm.
Now you might have noticed that semen certainly doesn’t taste very sweet. The meme helps explain why.
As one of the starchier medical sites puts it
In general, any substance that confers protection to the semen can likely be found in the semen and this tends to include proteins and fructose (as macronutrients) and some antioxidant compounds like uric acid and zinc
If semen were really sweet then everybody would want to swallow it instead of do that whole biological-imperative/reproduction thing. So Iâm guessing one of the side benefits of all that zinc, uric acid, citric acid, and other minerals is to âprotectâ it from…
âThe ideal meal time should last around 20- 30 minutes. This is enough time for [Littles] to eat as much as they need without feeling rushed and losing interest. Of course, some [Littles] may take a little longer than others, so itâs important to recognize their individual needs. Â
Itâs important for [Daddies] to be made aware of the meal and snack routine/timings youâll be following in your early years setting by sharing the menu with them. This will help [Daddies] time meals and snacks at home to fit in with their routine, ensuring consistency for their [Little], even at weekends.â – randomly selected snacking advice, lightly edited
Itâs almost lunchtime here too, cuddlebug, letâs eat!
The trick to 69 isnât âsimultaneous orgasms,â is it? No, tippytoes, the trick is seeing who can make the other completely lose track of what theyâre supposed to be doing.
Cock nursing can be awesome! Call it the oral equivalent of holding hands or snuggling. Ok, a very naughty equivalent but still! Â
It can be more than that, obviously. My first time was with someone who said it would help if she could hold me in her mouth while I got her off with my hands. Iâd come earlier so I wasnât ready to come again, and she was clear that while she was getting off she wouldnât be able to do much for me anyway. She said having a dick in her mouth made it easier for her to come.
Other times though it can be almost platonic â just something cuddly to do when youâre in bed together. More sensual than sexual, if that makes sense. Â
In D/Lg it can turn into something very orgasmic. Way more of a âbedtime bottleâ than a pacifier.
Finally, some people enjoy doing it but hate the term. The words arenât important but whatever you want to call it itâs a very nice feeling!  Even when itâs not about me.
