Giving! I know you never asked why, but I’m gonna tell you anyway..
It’s all about the visual and audio reactions. Audio obviously speaks for itself, so pleasing visual reactions and sensations to see/feel include:
• Lip biting.
• Eyes rolling to the back of her head.
• Watching her arch her back when it gets too much.
• The look where she lifts her head up slightly to have a look down her body, locking eye contact with me for a few seconds, before watching her head fall back swiftly into place again.
• The feeling of her trembling thighs underneath you.
• The shuffles she makes.
• Having her fingers in my hair.
• Grabbing other parts of her body simultaneously (if you have long arms like I do).
• Seeing the immense pleasure and enjoyment spread across the receiver’s face and knowing that you’re responsible for that.
Yeah those reasons 👆🏼
All this plus as a top I get the same rush taking you to plateau phase and toying you over the edge as I do sending you into sub space or little space. Turning you into a cute, wriggly, needy, clingy, breathy, incoherent puddle is always so hot and using licks and kisses is a particularly intimate way to do it.
This is just one more reason I think it’s dumb when someone says a Dom or Daddy shouldn’t go down on their Sub or Little. I mean ahahaha!
A lot of people don’t get that the pleasure of consensual manhandling is about surrendering your whole body and not just your naughty bits. And (Swedish-style, non-elbows) massage is basically very thorough non-sexual manhandling, isn’t it?
So thee key to a great erotic massage is to start with a real massage and wait till we both have no doubt about the answer to one simple question…
Cute cotton panties and a t-shirt are highly underrated “lingerie.”
When I ask you to crawl under my desk and fix something I genuinely appreciate that you can actually fix them!
Just wanted to acknowledge those two things. I might pull you into my lap and call you Daddy’s little gumdrop, but I’ll never, ever doubt that you’re a damn capable gumdrop.
“Do you think you’re going to need your panties on?”
“No, sir.”
Good girl. I’m going to reach under your skirt and pull them down. Is that ok?”
“Yes, sir.”
“Good girl! Your skirt is very short, isn’t it? Do you understand that if I take your panties off I’ll be able to see your pussy. Are you ok with me seeing your pussy?”
idk if this ever happens to anyone else but I’m kinda cock crazed atm like I really really want to just suck, lick, generally worship someone’s dick :( doesn’t even have to pleasure me I just want to admire some rl dick :(
I’m replying to @fylth’s tags: #do guys ever get pussy crazed? and #serious question
Serious answer? Definitely. Yes! I get like that sometimes. Pussies are just kind of awesome that way. Just beautiful little soft, warm, slippery, tasty puzzles to be unwrapped and explored. They feel good, look wonderful, taste delicious, and make you make all kinds of cute, breathy sounds and adorable wriggles…
Sigh!
I always feel sorry for folks who think it’s not right for a Dom or Daddy to go down on their Sub or Little. It’s not just lazy doodledoms who believe that either – a disappointing number of Subs think so too.
But honestly, what, exactly is not dominant about doing something that sends you so deep I have to use my big, strong hands to hold your hips still because you have exactly zero ability to do so? That makes you beg and whimper and moan? That makes you hyperventilate and shudder, then quiver and go limp… and then shyly giggle and blush while you recover?
Pussy crazy? Yeah, I get that. Want me to get you, popcorn?
A jealous, “one-dick policy” Daddy never gets to know what his Little learns when she has playdates and sleepovers, does he?
And that would be a shame for both of us. In a real power-exchange relationship the top and bottom are still autonomous adult human beings. Being in kink doesn’t change that. (For that matter being vanilla doesn’t change that!)
It seems almost comically common for Doms and even Daddies to imagine they can have multiple Subs or Littles, and flat peculiar that
Nothing wrong with being exclusive. And nothing wrong with being authentically poly either. But fuck that whole “one-dick policy” double standard.
The smile of Garbo And the scent of roses The waiters whistling As the last bar closes The song that Crosby sings These foolish things Remind me of you – Stanley, Wiggs, & Cracknell
