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what is your dirtiest sexual fantasy?
“What is your dirtiest sexual fantasy? — An anonymous Ask
My answerâs a little funny because some of my dirtiest sexual fantasies⊠ok, really more just my favorite ones⊠involve playing roleplaying games in a shower or bathtub. There are just so many great D/Lg games you can play when youâve got lots of warm water, soap, shampoo, towels, hairbrushes, bath sponges, bath toys, no-slip bars, sturdy shower curtains or shower heads, shower wandsâŠ
Sigh!
Ugh, it would take forever to make a whole list, wouldnât it? But just a few of them might be
- âDaddy, canât you see Iâm in the bathtub?â and âHoney, what are you doing in here, Daddyâs taking a bath!â
- Just playing together in a tub when the bubbles are two feet (60cm) deep
- Washing each otherâs hair
- Washing each otherâs naughty bits
- Wrestling or trying to play CNC games while totally slippery with soap and water
- Exhibitionism/voyeurism peekaboo play with bubbles
- Scary shower-curtain âjump scares.â
- All kinds of butt play cause cleanup is so easy
- âYouâre too Little to take a bath by yourselfâŠâ
- âHow did you get so messy, letâs get you into the tub right nowâŠâ
- Bondage games with curtain rods or the shower head
- Teasing or actually pleasing with shower wands
- Letting you straddle and grind the slippery side of the tubâŠ
- Possibly with me straddling the side of the tub right behind you
Just⊠lots of lovely, dirty things two (or, I guess, more) people can do together in a tub or shower, huh? So getting clean is one of my favorite dirty fantasies.
What about you?
Following up on my earlier post about why itâs a mistake to assume D/Lg relationships always involve a âDaddy Domâ and a submissive Little…
Because really there are so many ways to play, arenât there, ocelot?
Ahahah, oh dear!Â
Ugh! Doing this is so impossibly sweet and hot, isnât it? Capturing my thigh between yours? My fingertips dipping just inside you. Your eager hand finding me straining inside my jeans. Pressing your breasts against my bare chest while we make out?
Oh princess, letâs spend allll afernoon doing things just like this!
You have one purpose, and if he would rather look at porn than use your drippy cumsockets to masturbate with, that doesnât change your job description.
Donât screw it up stupid.
Just for the record, while I do my best to accommodate someoneâs humiliation kink when Iâm topping them, Iâm… probably never going to be able to convincingly pretend like Iâd rather be looking at porn while youâre there.
Iâm sorry.  Iâm a pretty good actor.  But, yeah, never going to be that good.
Two things shitty porn clichés have taught us
- Sex isnt a surefire path to orgasms for men anymore than it is for women
- Itâs not cheating to use your hands to insure your own orgasm, even with a partner
Really. Itâs ok. Itâs nice when your partner can make you come or if they can come from what youâre doing.
But thereâs no shame if not.
Weâve got four hands as well as all the other bits. Would be a shame not to use them all.
Two things shitty porn clichés have taught us
- Sex isnt a surefire path to orgasms for men anymore than it is for women
- Itâs not cheating to use your hands to insure your own orgasm, even with a partner
Really. Itâs ok. Itâs nice when your partner can make you come or if they can come from what youâre doing.
But thereâs no shame if not.
Weâve got four hands as well as all the other bits. Would be a shame not to use them all.
