You ever stop to think how much women enjoy being kissed deeply and passionately? How much they love when you nibble their ears, kiss their neck, swirl their breasts and nipples, and especially when you make them come again and again on your tongue?
Women generally love when you do those things, donât they? (If you donât answer âyesâ then we need to have another conversation first, ok? So just say âyes.â)
Now. Do you ever look in the mirror while youâre brushing your teeth, stick out your tongue and say âyeah, babes love tongues so lemme just grab my cell phone here and take a nice, juicy closeup of my tongue and send it to a buncha women!â
No? You wouldnât do that? Câmon! What could be a bigger, hotter turnon than seeing a closeup of a nice, fat, hard tongue?
No? Yeah, that would be really stupid, wouldnât it? Â
Cause women might love kissing you and being kissed. And my but they enjoy being licked! But even if you really can lick your eyebrows we both know theyâre going to be more interested in feeling it than, you know, seeing it. And if they want to see it at all theyâre going to be way more interested in seeing it in the context of your lips, your face, your eyes, and especially the way you smile out of genuine happiness to see them, or smirk like a cat whoâs about to eat a very enthusiastic canary.
Just your tongue though? Nothing but your tongue? Ironically a tongue in isolation doesnât say shit!
Itâs the same with dicks. Someone might love what you can do with your tongue, but they donât want to watch you brush your teeth, right? They may love what you can do with your dick, and they very likely love what they can do to your dick with their tongue! But a dick by itself, like a tongue by itself, doesnât say shit either.
Hands though? Women see our hands and forearms all the time. When we roll up our sleeves? Itâs a little like when they lean over just enough for you to see a little cleavage. Â
When they see our hands? Well. Fair or unfair itâs just a lot easier to imagine all the things someone might do with their hands, isnât it? Dicks though? Eh. Dicks are just a really nice bump to rub up against in the context of your whole body… preferably while your big, strong hands are firmly gripping their hips to help steady, support, and guide them.
If youâre going to send any body parts besides your face? Send hand and forearm pics. Wait for them to ask to see (or hold, or kiss, or sit on) your tongue. Or dick.
Two tips for guys who send unsolicited dick pics: Sorry, champ, but thereâs no right way to do it!
The best âdick picsâ arenât the ones you take, and
Nobodyâs impressed with a pic someone else took while you were fucking them
This is not to say, by the way, that women donât like dicks, or or enjoy seeing them, or donât like seeing photos of dicks. Ahahah! In fact, ahahahahaha!
Mostly they donât really want to see pics you or someone else took.
Hereâs the key to all that: society says when it comes to sex men are the active agents and women the passive recipients. But really, women, being human beings and all just like you, enjoy building and making things. Including building your arousal and making you hard. And taking pictures of what they make. And a random dick pic showing up in their inbox? You can maybe argue you got hard looking at her selfies, but you canât say she built it, can you?
I often talk about sending forearm pics instead. Whatâs the difference? Forearms and hands remind people of what you could build for them!
me when anyone whoâs not the one (1) person i made the post directed at interacts with me:
@radioactivepussyââs hashtags are really great too!
#this is about men who slide into my dms and send dick pics #mutuals you are loved and welcome to interact
But. Yeah. Iâve mentioned previously that possibly the most embarrassing, humiliating, but also enlightening moment for me happened when a girl sitting next to me in my car, after weâd been talking for hours, pushed her hands between her legs and said âI. Just. Want. To. Fuck.â
And she did! Â
Very badly.Â
Just not by me.
Luckily I only said something like âme too, letâs go somewhere and fuckâ as opposed to putting my hand between her legs. But she clarified rather… well… clearly that I wasnât who sheâd had in mind.
Also, yeah, even if someone says âI want you, [your name here], to come over right now, this minute, so we can fuck each other, Iâm texting you my address and GPS coordinates right nowâ then still donât send her a goddamn pic of your dick, mâkay?
Not bored. Just a little lonely. If ooonnly there was someone who wanted to keep me, my thighs, and my forearms company. Iâm all alone for the evening, couch surfing at a friendâs house halfway through a road trip mini vacation.
