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Female Masturbation
1. Classic 4 Finger Masturbation
This is probably the most used technique. Itâs simple to do and will work well for anyone that enjoys
lots of clitoral stimulation. All you need to do is find a comfortable
position where you can easily access your clit with your hand.Then itâs a simple case of holding your 4 fingers together and
rubbing them back and forth over your clit like in the diagram above.As with all the fingering techniques here, the key is experimenting
with the direction and pressure you apply. Some women will prefer
moving their fingers side to side, while others enjoy more of an up
& down motion that also covers their labia and rest of their vagina.While the 4 finger technique is great for reaching orgasm, itâs not
so good if you enjoy long drawn out âteasingâ masturbation. Thankfully
the next technique will teach you just that.2. U Spot
Not many people seem to know about the U Spot. Itâs the area of skin
just above your urethral opening and to the sides of it. To stimulate it
you just need to very gently stroke it with the tip of your finger like
in the illustration below. Youâll find that using lots of lube is best
to help keep it pleasurable. For some women, the U Spot can extend
higher than in this illustration, to right below the clitoris.3. Fingering Yourself
Iâve covered a lot of masturbation techniques to bring yourself to
orgasm that focus on your clit. However, there are also a lot of great
techniques to make yourself cum that involve penetrating yourself.
Fingering yourself is the easiest.Itâs a simple case of making sure that your fingers have enough lube
on them, using either something like coconut oil or your own natural
lubrication and then slowly penetrating yourself. While you can simply
stick your fingers in and out of your vagina to find out for yourself
what feels most pleasurable, I always recommend that you try stimulating
your G Spot as this is almost guaranteed to give you an orgasm.Your G Spot is located about 2-3 inches inside your vagina as you can see in the diagram and you can only find it when you are aroused as
I explain in the article on finding your G Spot. So if itâs your first
time, spend 10-15 minutes first getting yourself in the mood.Now itâs just a case of stimulating it. Insert 1 or 2 fingers and use
the tips of them to press it, massage it and rub it.Â4. Love That Shower Head!
If you havenât yet used a shower head or faucet to get off then you
are missing out! While itâs not exactly a standard masturbation
technique, it feels incredible, yet quite different. All you need is a
faucet that you can maneuver your vagina under so that the water can
freely flow over it or a shower head that you can direct towards your
vagina.Everyone that tries it
reports that the running water feels wonderful and can help you get off
very, very quickly. So experiment with the settings on your shower head
to find out what feels best. Quick Hint: You may find that the âpulseâ
setting is best5. Delightful Dildos
This last masturbation technique doesnât involve your clit at all.
Instead youâll be using a dildo to masturbate with and reach orgasm.The In & Out – The easiest way to masturbate
with a dildo is to simply push it in and pull it out of your vagina,
over and over. However, if you angle it a bit, then you can hit your G
Spot & A Spot which will be a lot more pleasurable.Using Your Dildo On Your G Spot – you first need to be aroused to hit your G Spot. Once you are, then you simply need to angle the dildo so that
itâs making direct contact with it. You can see the angle that you need
to make from the diagram below. Just remember that you really only need
short, shallow strokes to hit your G Spot. Itâs about 2-3 inches deep.Using Your Dildo On Your A Spot – If youâd prefer to
go deeper with your dildo, then youâll hit your A Spot, also known as
your anterior fornix. Make sure you are careful at first as you might
accidentally hit your cervix when looking for it, which is very painful.
If you are having trouble finding it, then you may need to experiment
with the angle of penetration a little bit until you find it.You can see in the illustration below that your A Spot is located
much deeper in your vagina, very close to your cervix. Itâs location is
called the anterior fornix erogenous zone or AFE.6. In Da Hood
Some women have a super-sensitive clitoris. So sensitive in
fact, that it can almost be painful to touch. If you are one of these
women, then you may find that using any of the masturbation techniques
that have been described above to be too uncomfortableâŠand possibly even
painful.If thatâs the case, then instead of applying
pressure directly to your clit, you need to instead use your clitoral
hood as a buffer. Thatâs the flap of skin just above your clit that
covers it. Iâve indicated it in the illustration above with a slightly
darker shade of pink (in real life your clitoral hood has no distinct
color). So if you have an overly sensitive clit, then try rubbing your
clitoral hood instead of your clit. Youâll notice that itâs a lot more
pleasurable.7. Hood Life
Now, you may happen to be someone who suffers from a lack of sensitivity and
so need all the rubbing, grinding, touching & stimulation you can
get on your clitoris. No problem, to
allow yourself to stimulate your clit more heavily, youâre going to need
to expose it more. Itâs easy and the demonstration above should be all
you need to expose it.As you can see, by placing your fingers above your clit and on either
side of it, then slowly pulling the skin backwards, you will pull back
the clitoral hood and expose it much more. Now you can use your other
hand or a vibrator to stimulate it directly.8. Featherlite
The featherlite technique is just like it sounds, it involves a
âfeather lightâ touch. Itâs best to perform the featherlite technique
while lying down in bed, with your legs spread open. Youâre then going
to use just one finger (usually your index finger) to gently apply the
tiniest amount of pressure to the very edge of your clitoris as
demonstrated in the diagram below.Youâre only going to move your finger a few millimeters back and
forth making sure to apply only the slightest amount of pressure to your
clit. Many women report that it just feels too frustrating and they
canât keep doing it for long, that it feels like they are teasing
themselves, while others report that the longer they do it, the better
it feels.At least try it and do your absolute best to hold out
for as long as you can, making sure to always use the very least amount
of pressure possible.9. Humping & Grinding Your Pillow
Many women first learn to masturbate through humping or grinding on
their pillow. Itâs perfect for stimulating your clit and labia at the
same time. Youâll find that you get most friction, stimulation and
pleasure if you are wearing your panties or nothing at all while
grinding yourself off your pillow. Here are a few different ways to do
it.
- If you have a long pillow like the one above, you can lie down on
your side with it between your legs.Then grip it between your legs and
pull it backwards so that it is against your labia and clit. Then just
start grinding.- If you donât have a long pillow like the one in the picture above,
grab a mid sized one and turn it on itâs side and straddle it. Or fold
it in half and straddle it, whichever works best for you. Then rest your
weight right down on it. Before you start grinding on it, you can
adjust it so that itâs firmly pressed against your vagina. Then simply
move your vagina up and down the pillow and ride it to orgasm!- Another great way to provide even more pressure and stimulation to
your vagina when pleasuring yourself is to cover your pillow tightly
with a towel before you start masturbating with it. This way you will be
grinding over your slightly more rough towel instead of your pillow. It
also prevents your pillow from getting wet. Bonus Tip:
You can also experiment with putting different things like stuffed toys
or electric toothbrushes under the towel for a different sensation when
reaching orgasm.- Using a pillow is just the start. Why not try grinding on your
man the next time you are making out with him. Simply straddle his thigh
and start grinding!10. Vibrator Time
Vibrators can give you the most intense orgasmsâŠbut
beware they can end up making your clit feel a little sore if you
use them too much.Everyone has their own personal preferences but here are a few ideas
to get you going:
- Some adore rubbing their vibrators all over their bodies and can even orgasm from using them on their breasts and nipples.
- Some love feeling the vibrations indirectly on their clit. Direct stimulation can sometimes be too much. So use tip #9 if that sounds like you.
- Some need direct stimulation on their clit to cum.
- Some adore running their vibrator up and down their labia.
- Some adore being penetrated by their vibrator.
If you are using a vibrator to masturbate play
around with it and see what gives you the most pleasure. There is no
âone size fit allâ method to using a vibrator to orgasm. For more tips
& info on how to use your vibrator, check out this guide here.Iâm gonna keep this here because I legit need to learn more xD
When I was a very young man I found a bunch of sex manuals from the 40s, 50s, and maybe early 60s on top of a shelf where, Iâve always suspected, my parents hid them… where they knew weâd find them. (Because, seriously, at least back then there was nothing more humiliating for a kid than to get any kind of âbirds and beesâ info face-to-face from your parents.)
But there was actually quite a lot of information in there about ways of âinducing orgasms,â which was… pretty much how even the verging-on-pornographic manuals tended to put things. Â
I thought it was all pretty fascinating. I even learned how to masturbate from those books, and since there were loving descriptions and lovely drawings in the section on womenâs orgasms I masturbated to those. Frequently.
You probably donât have to be a psychologist to figure out where my little kink for making you come comes from. :-)
I love, love, love this post because itâs so non medical though! Not that thereâs anything wrong with medical kinks of course (mmm, medical roleplaying games!!!) Itâs also really awesome because not everybody comes the same way – often weâll find one method that works and weâll stick with that. Thatâs as true for men as for women. But as the OP shows there are lots of different ways, and from a neurological and musculoskeletal perspective different methods (again for men and women) develop different neural pathways to orgasm. And that can be very handy for partnered sex. Â
Ugh. Forgive me for getting all nerdy about this. I could really just say itâs a lovely infographic and leave it at that.
Forget “doggie style, how about Wolf style instead?
Speaking of wolves…
Iâve probably mentioned that I hate the term âdoggie style.â Or âdoggie position .â
It was coined by people who didnât approve. So of all the mammals that mount from behind they choke the one whoâs compulsive fucking style is the least easy to respect.
Fuck that.
I might call you âpuppyâ sometimes, kittycat, but Iâll never fuck you âdoggieâ style.
Letâs fuck like wolves!
What do you think of when you’re alone at night and craving something
When Iâm alone at night I think of sooo many things. From âhow long till morningâ till âhow long till the energy death of the universe!â From âdid I remember to press âsendâ on that email before I leftâ to âhow many years is 200 months?â From âwould a great-circle route from my house to Plymouth or Bristol England go closer to the North Pole or New York Cityâ to âwhich really is heavier, a pound of feathers or a pound of lead?â Sooooo many things! ????
But sometimes when itâs dark I wake up and imagine feeling the weight of knees on my bed, the sound of my covers being drawn back, the rustle of someone scooching up next to me and tucking herself under my shoulder. Â
I think of warm breasts against my chest, a thigh thrown across my leg, of soft breath against my neck and the faint scent of shampoo, and a soft hand on my chest or belly. In my sleepy daze I fret that Iâm probably hard and it embarrasses me to think they might bump into it if they rubbed down too far. Â
I think of how hips gently rocking against my thigh and a soft kiss on my neck means I donât need to worry about anything at all. And that itâs so sweet and wonderful and powerful to reach down and flex and roll my mysterious visitor on top of me.
I think of my hands on a soft, skin-warm cotton t-shirt, stroking down from shoulders to waist⊠and then feeling nothing but smooth, bare skin as far as I can reach because somebody wasnât wearing panties when they hopped into my bed.
I think of squeezing naked hips and molding a naked ass in my big, strong hands. Of pushing up while someone grinds down against me. Of turning my head to find neck and shoulders flexing as my bristly beard tickles them. Of turning further to find a soft cheek and even softer lips with mine.
I think of sleepily whispering âride Daddy, mischevious elf, even though you never asked.â And âItâs ok, grind your wet little pussy against me till youâve had your fun.â And growling âbut then it will be my turn to ride you, wonât it?â
I think about soooo many things, when Iâm alone at night. Of craving thingsâŠ
And of being craved.
It was a good question. Thank you so much for asking.
What’s not to like? Answers you’ll probably enjoy…
Hmm. Whatâs not to like?
Well, since Iâm feeling philosophical as well as horny and over-caffeinated letâs see if we can find anything not to like about this?
You properly stradding my lap? Nope, thatâs very likable isnât it?
My stong hands, firmly gripping your hips? I think youâd like both of those things. I certainly do!
Both of us wearing faded jeans with the top buttons undone? I like that!
Neither of us wearing anything else? Mmmm, very likable!
Grinding your wet little pussy against my hard cock? Um… thatâs very nice!
Maybe till you come before either of us are even fully undressed? Oooh!
All the  possibilities  certainties that follow all that? On a lazy Saturday morning when weâve got all the time in the world?
Angel, I donât see anything not to like in this little daydream? Â
How about you?
Come sit in my lap and tell me alllll about it, little panda!
The popularity and availability of porn has popularized so many⊠interesting notions…
The popularity and availability of porn has popularized so many⊠interesting notions.  Some of them are quite pleasant.  Others odd.  Still others risky and uncomfortable.
The funniest and perhaps socially most significant is the popularization of the âmoney shotâ â ejaculation outside the partnerâs body.
As a man thereâs hardly anything less pleasant than getting right to the edge of a lovely orgasm with a beautiful, responsive lover and⊠pulling out and masturbating like a teenager into cold, thin air.
It became popular in industrial porn mostly because cleanup is so much quicker. Â I think it might have helped mostly-male porn consumers identify with the actors since pretty much all porn consumers masturbate as well.
I dunno. Â But thanks to its near-universality in porn this odd stop-and-masturbate thing has become popular during actual sex with actual partners.
Given that the withdrawal method is roughly as good a method of contraception as condoms (though not, obviously, for disease prevention) then in social terms and unwanted, unplanned pregnancies this peculiar artifact of production efficiency in porn isnât a bad thing at all.
What do you think? Â Given a choice where would you rather come, or have your partner come?