S/O to the girls that love being choked a lil when they’re being kissed
This is one of those things I’ll do, kindly and carefully, that as a top I don’t really understand. I mean I’ve never once woken up saying gee it would be nice to lightly choke my sweetie.
But, weirdly to the uninitiated, power-exchange kinks aren’t all about the top, are they? Older, experienced tops certainly do what pleases us, but we do it within the consent, boundaries, and hard limits we negotiate with our partners.
I’ve never though mmm, wonder if she’ll let me choke her. But oh boy do a lot of submissive melt into happy little smoldering puddles when I do.
I might not understand why it turns you on so, caterpuppy. But I adore doing it with, to, and for you.
So many ways to have you on, over, and my lap, sunshine. This is maybe my favorite one of all. And just between you and me, all the slinky Agent Provocateur undies in the world can’t compare to a cute pair of soft, cotton panties. With or without a cute print design (though preferably with.)
Some of you are looking at her cute little butt. Quite a few more of you are looking at his strong hands and forearms instead. Which do you think is sexier, thimblespin?
You ever stop to think how much women enjoy being kissed deeply and passionately? How much they love when you nibble their ears, kiss their neck, swirl their breasts and nipples, and especially when you make them come again and again on your tongue?
Women generally love when you do those things, don’t they? (If you don’t answer “yes” then we need to have another conversation first, ok? So just say “yes.”)
Now. Do you ever look in the mirror while you’re brushing your teeth, stick out your tongue and say “yeah, babes love tongues so lemme just grab my cell phone here and take a nice, juicy closeup of my tongue and send it to a buncha women!”
No? You wouldn’t do that? C’mon! What could be a bigger, hotter turnon than seeing a closeup of a nice, fat, hard tongue?
No? Yeah, that would be really stupid, wouldn’t it?
Cause women might love kissing you and being kissed. And my but they enjoy being licked! But even if you really can lick your eyebrows we both know they’re going to be more interested in feeling it than, you know, seeing it. And if they want to see it at all they’re going to be way more interested in seeing it in the context of your lips, your face, your eyes, and especially the way you smile out of genuine happiness to see them, or smirk like a cat who’s about to eat a very enthusiastic canary.
Just your tongue though? Nothing but your tongue? Ironically a tongue in isolation doesn’t say shit!
It’s the same with dicks. Someone might love what you can do with your tongue, but they don’t want to watch you brush your teeth, right? They may love what you can do with your dick, and they very likely love what they can do to your dick with their tongue! But a dick by itself, like a tongue by itself, doesn’t say shit either.
Hands though? Women see our hands and forearms all the time. When we roll up our sleeves? It’s a little like when they lean over just enough for you to see a little cleavage.
When they see our hands? Well. Fair or unfair it’s just a lot easier to imagine all the things someone might do with their hands, isn’t it? Dicks though? Eh. Dicks are just a really nice bump to rub up against in the context of your whole body… preferably while your big, strong hands are firmly gripping their hips to help steady, support, and guide them.
If you’re going to send any body parts besides your face? Send hand and forearm pics. Wait for them to ask to see (or hold, or kiss, or sit on) your tongue. Or dick.
