No, he is being a good and loving Dom who recognizes that punishment should be proportional to the infraction, and who recognizes that how the two of you âdo D/sâ is your decision, not those bunch of people, who sound like idiots to me.Â
Wow. I have never had a munch experience like this where I was forced to answer some question, let alone being judged for that response. Hopefully you can find a different munch in your area, anon. Iâve been to several in my area, and zero of them has been like this.
Ahahah! What a total violation of munch protocol! Also D/S protocol! Â
Not to sound prickly but itâs roughly the equivalent of asking the Exhibitionists to go around and flash their asses. And then calling someone bad a bad Exhibitionist because they didnât want to.
âOh, but weâre only talking about erotic punishments so itâs ok.â No, youâre talking about group humiliation-play on all the Subs.
The âgoodâ news is that it sounds like the munch was for folks who share a very particular and narrow definition of âhigh protocolâ or somesuch nonsense. The bad news is that, like a lot of âcommunitiesâ they manage to alienate pretty much everyone who doesnât share that particularly narrow definition.
Thereâs a reason why the vast majority of kinksters donât get involved in the local âcommunity.â Itâs usually because itâs not really much of a community at all.
That said! Thereâs also nothing wrong with saying âwait a minute, is this really appropriate for a munch?â Even if youâre new. Itâs one of those âsee something, say somethingâ situations. Â
There are a lot of misconceptions about D/Lg. For instance being Little isnât always about pink polkadots, Skittles, and trips to the zoo. Sometimes itâs just about getting perversely turned on when an older, experienced gentleman whispers âletâs get you out of these wet things, pocketwatch.â Â
On the other hand, if she wears nothing but a pair of cuffs and a pearl necklace chances are very good youâre not the one who decided you were going to have sex!Â
Fuck this. I wear sexy lingerie all the time for myself. Donât congratulate yourself just because sheâs wearing red lace. Sheâs simply that fucking sexy.
Big hatâs off to @willowgirl713â! One of the most important things I learned about women and fashion is that women wear what they wear for themselves! Just like I wear what I wear to please my self!
It really doesnât take any longer to choose a matching bra and panties than it does to pick out your favorite band t-shirt and a clean pair of jeans. And speaking of concert t-shirts, Iâm… pretty darn sure that a) you donât choose it at random before going out but also b) you almost certainly didnât decide to wear it for her either. Matching bras and panties can be like that – not chosen at random but not necessarily chosen for you either.
On the upside, no matter what your sweetieâs wearing thereâs at least a 50/50 chance that it wasnât you who decided the two of you were going to have sex. Funny how human libidos tend to work that way. Pretty wonderful too when you think about it.
Feeling aggressively, carnivorously hungry for you this morning, eyedrop. Daddy needs more than a little taste of you. Gonna be like the big bad wolf and eat you alllllll up…
